Galveston, Texas is a popular cruise ship port for many. If you will be sailing from the port of Galveston the weekend of December 1, 2, 3, then you will have the opportunity to participate in the Dickens on the Strand celebration that takes place that weekend.
Handbell concert at Saint Joseph’s Church
One of the most interesting activities is the handbell concert held in Saint Joseph’s Church. No longer a Catholic church, it was was de-consecrated in 1968 and many of the interior items auctioned off; however, the Galveston Historical Foundation bought the building and many of the statues and other features so that it now closely resembles the Church that it was before.
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As people in the U.S. take to the air for the Thanksgiving weekend, it is interesting to look at how the cost of air travel has come down….yes, down, since back in the 1960’s and 70’s. Americans flying to Europe these days have a few complaints about the hassles of air travel; however, you may be interested in comparing how far we’ve really come in terms of cost, convenience and comfort of flights. In 1960, according to U.S. government figures, US airlines carried about 62 million passengers, by 2010 it was over ten times that number at 720 million. Here are a few ways that air travel has actually improved!
1. Cost of flying: Think air fares are through the roof? Better think again. Few people could afford to fly back in the 1960’s. A flight from New York to Paris was about $370 in 1960, when median family income was only about $450 per month. That is $2800 in today’s prices, and almost a whole month’s income. So compare that to the $900 or so that you can get if you shop around, and you’ll quickly see that today’s prices are actually a bargain.
2. Convenience: Today we have hundreds of convenient, non-stop flights; however, prior to 1960 these options did not exist. For example:
Flying from Chicago non-stop to Rome in 1960? Not without at least one stop along the way–and there were only two flights per week. Here is a Chicago newspaper article from 1960. Flying non-stop from Houston to Istanbul…you’re kidding, right? Atlanta to anywhere outside the U.S……forget about it in the 60’s.
In the 1960’s Pan Am* began using Boeing 707’s from New York to Paris/London. It was at this time that they introduced their “round the world” flights.
Pan American Airways DC-8 (photo courtesy Wikimedia)
Pan Am flight #1 was westbound, and flight #2 was Eastbound. So, if you wanted to fly from New York to New Delhi, flight #2 had six stops along the way: London (Paris on alternate days), Frankfurt, Vienna, Istanbul, Beruit, Karachi, and finally New Delhi. From there it continued on to Burma, Bangkok, Hong Kong, Tokyo, Honolulu and then finally San Francisco.
3. Comfort: This is the only one where you might have a valid complaint. Seats in coach were comfortable, and planes were often half-empty it seemed. Sure there is less room nowadays…in some cases a lot less, but that is one of the trade-offs. And the meals were better (Pan Am advertised meals catered by Maxim of Paris) as well as free.
But there are also some things that are better: There is also a lot less cigarette smoke (none, in fact) which is certainly an added plus for non-smokers. Did we think the smoke really did not venture into the non-smoking area? Were we really that naive?
Gone are the days when you were satisfied to catch up on your reading on a long flight. Now, however, we are spoiled. We expect…DEMAND….movies and more. And we get them…often for a fee.
I was on pilgrimage to the Holy Land, organized by Select International Tours. Another pilgrim, Terry, was sitting beside her husband at the outdoor Mass we attended on the Mount of Beatitudes. She leaned into Chris’ side and felt the joy of praying the Mass with him, the enormity of hearing the words of the divine liturgy on this mountain where Jesus Christ proclaimed the Sermon on the Mount.
Then, Terry suddenly reached up and swiped at the back of her neck as though she had been stung…….it was no bee.
When I looked behind her, I had to smile. The branch she had just swept away was from the Zizyphus Spina Christi plant, a tree believed to have been used to make the Crown of Thorns that was placed on Our Lord’s Sacred Head before the crucifixion.
The significance of that moment on the Mount of Beatitudes and the grace of being pricked by the thorns of that plant in the middle of Mass still resonate with me. Yes, it was a grace: it is a grace to share in His Passion, just as it is a grace to share in His Resurrection and triumph over death and sorrow, and little pricks of pain from countless things that trouble us.
The Mount of Beatitudes is an essential part of any visit to the Holy Land. The Sermon on the Mount comes alive here, where it was preached over 2,000 years ago.
A little thorn on an obscure branch on a hill where the gospel was proclaimed and is still proclaimed today. This tree was most likely the one from which the Crown of Thorns was made The Zizyphus Spina Christi bush was most likely the one from which the Crown of Thorns was made. It grows wild here on the Mount of Beatitudes and elsewhere. The thorns were not big, like those we imagine or see in Hollywood depictions of that day. They were little. So sharp. Like needles, but so small that one has to look closely to see them. The first time I visited the Holy Land and walked along that Mount of Beatitudes, I paused to snap a little branch from one tree as we descended the mountain and approached the Sea of Galilee below.
The thorns pierced me three times, drawing blood. It was painful, but I had to laugh at the irony of it. Such a little thing, this thorn.
Such little things to cause such pain. And there was a little joy in knowing I was sharing in a very small way in the pain my Lord had experienced. I treasured that little thorn. It is now between the pages of my Bible – resting in the crevice of a page that tells about the Passion and a crown of many thorns.
As we approach Lent, I am thinking again about the Mount of Beatitudes and the Zizyphus Spina Christi plant.
I am thinking about our thorns, the countless sufferings we embrace and consider a share in His great suffering.
I think of Our Lord, who walked down that same mountain, passed thorny plants such as these, and yet had His eyes on the path that led all the way to the Cross of Mount Calvary.
Oh, my Jesus. Let me take up your suffering and wear it with you.
Let me see each prick as a grace.
And let me say what you said.
Thy will. Only Thy will.
Denise Bossert:
Denise is a convert to the Catholic Church. She is the daughteDenise Bossertr of a Protestant minister. In 2005, she converted to Catholicism after reading books by Carmelite saints. Her syndicated column called Catholic by Grace has been published in 63 diocesan newspapers. She has also written for Catholic magazines and appeared on EWTN’s Journey Home and Women of Grace. She is a Catholic travel writer and pilgrimage leader with Select International Tours and Cruises. Her first book is entitled Gifts of the Visitation and explores the Blessed Mother’s journey from Nazareth to Ein Kerem where she remained with St. Elizabeth for three months prior to the birth of St. John the Baptist. Website: denisebossert.com
Sunday (Day 13 of the Poland portion of our personal pilgrimage)
What a day! Even though we were up at 6 we didn’t care. We hung around the house having several cups of coffee and went to the 9 AM Sunday mass just down the street. It was a beautiful little church and the place was packed. Again we ended up standing in the back but at least we could see. Some people were even out the door for lack of room. During the service a young girl sitting next to where we were standing got up and offered Susan her seat. I wanted to laugh, because I knew what was going thru my honey’s mind……..do I look that old?
Mass was great and before the final blessing there were announcements and as I looked around the church not a single person had left early. We have found that to be the general case everywhere we go. There are no early bird specials here. After mass many of the people went to the cemetery behind the church with flowers for their loved ones. It was great to see.
Getting cash so we can pay for our lodging
We then went to the bank to get some ammo so we could pay for our stay in cash and then we stopped at the market and got some ribs for dinner, we were not going anywhere else today.
We spent a leisurely day at the house and had breakfast around noon and dinner at 7. We accomplished a few things today but mostly relaxed and did it feel goooooood!
We only saw our hosts, John and Dana, once today as we were leaving. We have spent a lot of time with John outside in the back since his English is very good.
Groundhog day for sure this time
Besides solving the problems in the world we discussed what he was going to do about his groundhog problem. It had created new mounds everyday and reminded me of the movie Caddy Shack, because that’s how I would have been. (I didn’t tell him about our groundhog problem) Susan suggested they name him, Dana did, and no we call him Max. There were 5 fresh new mounds today, oh boy! That’s all I remember.
Monday Day 14 Kalwaria & Sanctuary of the Weeping Madonna
This morning we slept till 7:30…….we had gone to bed at 8:30 last night, I guess we were tired. I didn’t make breakfast because neither of us was hungry. After the usual prep for the day we headed out around 10 for Kalwaria and the Sanctuary of the Weeping Madonna, Our Lady of Calvary. She shed tears of blood and veneration quickly became widespread and each year almost a million pilgrims come to pray and submit their petitions to Our Lady. Today we were two of them.
The Calvary extends for five miles and the walk of Mary goes high into the mountains. There was no way we could have done it today or maybe forever, as much as we had wanted to, since being here 2 years ago on a short stop to the airport.
First Holy Communion in the church
We spent a lot of time on the grounds and in the church, including mass at 11 with a lot of First Holy Communion children. The sermon was so verrrry loooong that the next group was coming in before the final blessing. I think I even dozed off. Oop’s
We were hungry now so we went to the restaurant on the grounds and had lunch. It was very good and I am ashamed to tell you how much it cost, so if you want to know send me an e-mail. We had a 2 PM reservation in Wadowice at the birth place and child hood home of St. John Paul II thanks to our friend Fr Tomasz since we waited to the last minute.
He reserved for us an English speaking tour, and I much as I dislike this stuff, I had tears in my eyes most the way. What an experience to touch his sofa and bed and crosses and to see how he grew up in this modest apartment. It was so beautifully done and the hour flew by. His life was one of tragedy and joy and he gave up what he loved most, acting, to become a man of God. A Saint for our times and a great advocate he has become for us. (Lots of photos).
Outside the house where John Paul II lived as a boy
A photo of young Karol Wojtyła with his mother
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The simple bedroom where he lived
Momentos of his more active days
A few more exhibits of this vigorous young Pope
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Editor’s note: Looking at some of these photos is a reminder of how young and vigorous (only 58 ) this Pope was when first elected.
Baptismal font where JP II was baptized
The Basilica next door has a special chapel for his Baptismal font, another for Saints Pio, Stanislaus, Kolbe and Simon of Lipnica with relics for each. The St. John Paul II chapel also has a relic and the other chapel across from St JPII is the chapel of Miraculous painting of Our Lady of Perpetual Help. The Basilica is named after the Presentation of Blessed Virgin Mary.
We lit candles here for all your intentions
There is a side chapel in honor of Divine Mercy so what better place to pray the Chaplet, plus there were 2 chairs in front of the altar and a painting of Our Lord.
We Lit candles there for all of you.
Editors note: you can still add your name to their prayer intentions by emailing them at tsmelillo13@aol.com.
The “Pope’s Cake” is a tradition here
This was again our 2nd visit to this village but this time we left with a much greater sense of the Saint and what it means to be holy.
We departed after we stopped for a piece of Pope cake, as they call it, since it was St. JPII’s favorite and renamed it after he became Pope.
It was back to Kalwaria, about 20 minutes away to spend a little more quite time at the shrine. We figured the buses would all be gone by now and we could pray our rosary in the Chapel of the Weeping Madonna. We started there but moved just outside in the main sanctuary to finish for some people we coming in to pray and we didn’t want to disturb them. The Basilica is where St. JPII’s father took him after his mother died, when he was 9 and here is where he developed a great love for Our Blessed Mother.
A few more photos and we left for home as we call it, for it is so comfortable. John was outside and we all talked for awhile, had a glass of wine together and then Susan & I noshed on some leftover ribs, cheese and pate and then it was to work, to begin repacking and preparing for tomorrows’ journey to Zakopane in the Tetra Mountains. YEAH!
Editor’s note: Tom loves to drive those winding mountain roads…..Sue, not so much.
John told us to stay as long as we like so we decided not to rush in the morning and maybe sleep in. Any way it’s 10 PM and I’m still typing, so I’m calling it a night after this truly magnificent day.
It’s strange how I decided to make the trip up to the chapel, after having driven past it numerous times (it is clearly visible from I-80). I had been reflecting on the famous statement made by Nietzsche who lamented that “God is dead.” And I guess the thing that made his words ring true were the countless times I found churches with nothing new and revivifying… the tradition was all there but there was no passion! And I began to feel the “deadness” because the words had become so rote and repetitive, and because the message was never applied to how I ought to act in the modern world. I began to think Nietzsche might have been right, and that perhaps those bland, relatively dark churches were in fact coffins in which we were holding a series of funereal rites.
But this dark thought caused me to look anew at the chapel on the hill… I looked and saw that someone must believe with all their heart to have built such a place. And I thought, “well if it is to be a funeral, at least here is an open casket!” It spoke to me as a lapsed Catholic because it did not attempt to recreate old styles of architecture, but rather it was built as something brand new and designed to be a natural piece of the landscape.
And so I visited, and I was filled with awe. I spoke to the deacon in the visitor center who told me the entire story of the construction of the place, and the series of miracles which allowed for its construction. I have personally had intimations of miracles in my own life since coming to this place… and I find myself returning to it every week, since I am fortunate to live so close to it (in Omaha, NE).
There have been many miracles witnessed at this place, and I can only imagine it is because God is pleased by an offering of such transcendent beauty.
Author Rod Dreher, is his book “The Benedict Option” argues that the best way to fight the growing secularism and hostility to Christianity that most of us see in our home countries is to go back to the example of Saint Benedict of Nursia.
Saint Benedict of Nursia, looking at the moral collapse following the fall of Rome in the 6th Century, chose to retreat from the world and build communities based on the order and stability that Christianity offered. The existence of these communities is credited with saving Christianity and Western civilization.
Dreher points out that watered-down Christianity, a secular culture that is hostile to Christian values and general apathy of Christians themselves, make it advisable….maybe even necessary….that we build our own separate communities.
It is certainly easy to get discouraged and feel that you are swimming against the tide….such as the Charlie Gard case, where the government dictates what care parents can give their child. Or where Catholic doctors and nurses are obliged to violate their consciences in order to practice their profession. Or sidewalk counselors are threatened with arrest. Or even some of our own clerics who have strayed from the teachings of the Church.
However, something we may have forgotten was that Christianity was never meant to be easy, and unfortunately, surface Christianity has become too easy in many places. No one stops you from attending Mass or practicing your faith….until you takeit out of the church building. But, of course, the building is not the Church, we as Catholic Christians are the Church.
What is often missing, though is a sense of community. In fact, Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg has stated that Facebook has taken the place of churches in providing a sense of community, and sadly, he is probably correct in many cases.
Although retreating to a monastery might appeal to some (and they may even feel called to it), it is not practical for most of us. We have jobs, children (or grandchildren) to raise, responsibilities that keep us in the world around us. And, of course, we are called to be “a light unto the world” rather than withdraw from it.
Archbishop Charles J. Caput has written a similar book on the subject, “Strangers in a Strange Land”, as shown here on the left.
We highly recommend it.
And in reality, what Dreher is proposing in his book is similar: rather than hide out in a monastery in the forest, we remain in the world, but withdraw from those things which are so harmful to our spiritual life.
Some simple things you can do that can be your own Benedict Option:
† Turn off the TV and read a book.
† Start a prayer group
† Plan a weekly social event with other like-minded Catholics.
Thus, we become our own community, or “Benedict Option”.
So how does all of this relate to travel? We suggest you go on a pilgrimage or retreat. Traveling to a local shrine, taking a pilgrimage, whether near or far away, can be a way to help renew our faith and to be in community with fellow Catholics.
There are many opportunities…a retreat center nearby, a group pilgrimage to various shrines, or just a personal pilgrimage as shown on our blog.
Being around other Catholics offers a chance to re-charge your batteries…..not so much in the physical sense but in the spiritual sense. You realize that you are not alone in the struggle. And, of course, if you travel to on a pilgrimage you will be with other Catholics, participate in Mass in other cultures, see just how universal the Catholic Church really is, and how you fit in to this world-wide community.
And that, really, is what “The Benedict Option” is all about.
It was recently revealed that the venerable “Frommer’s” travel guides were purchased by Google and soon thereafter it was announced that they would discontinue publishing the travel guides in book form.
In the age of the internet, many people get their information from websites such as ours. That is a good thing since there is such a wide range of sites out there, but we caution against relying on websites alone (even this one).
For starters, guide books are a great planning tool before you set out on your travels. The better ones are generally written from first-hand experience. And they often go in to more detail than general travel websites.
On September 23. 2017 the first U.S.-born Martyr was beatified: Father Stanley Rother, of the Diocese of Oklahoma City.
An Oklahoma farm boy, he fit in well with the oppressed Catholic peasants of Guatemala during the chaotic war fought in the late 1970’s and 80’s, when the dicatorship killed thousands of Catholics and persecuted the Church.
Refusing to abandon his parish, he was murdered in the sacristy…..not crying out so as not to put any of his flock in danger of execution as well.
His body was returned to Oklahoma City (minus his heart, which stayed in Guatemala) and is buried here in Oklahoma City. Among the 14,000 people attending his Beatification were members of his family as well as some from the mission in Guatemala that he served and loved.
You can find out more about his life and his tomb in Oklahoma City by going to our page here.
Fr. Rene Laurentin was a leading Mariologist and author of over 150 books and thousands of articles regarding Marian apparitions, such as Lourdes, Lisieux and many others. He died on September 10, 2017 at the age of 99.
He wrote about many modern mystics such as St. Therese of Liseux, Maria Valtorta (“poem of the Man God”), Saint Bernadette and many, many more.
More recent works include his 1995 book “An Appeal from Mary in Argentina”, about the approved apparitions in San Nicolas, Argentina.
According to some statistics, destination weddings are approaching 25% of all weddings. Great news for wedding planners no doubt, but how about you?
With all the drama that goes in to arranging a wedding in your home town, how much more complicated ( and stressful! ) is it to plan one in another city, or even another country? And, of course the requirements for a Catholic wedding go well beyond just a quick trip to the nearest church.
Well fortunately, it can be done, but you need to be sure you know the pluses and minuses of destination weddings.
We have added a series of pages to help you plan a Catholic destination wedding. We welcome your comments and suggestions.
