About Michelle Duppong:
Born on January 25, 1984 ( a birthday she enjoyed sharing with St. Paul, the great evangelizer), in Wheat Ridge, Colorado, Michelle’s childhood included typical farm chores such as gardening, mowing, pruning, weeding, harvesting, canning, herding sheep and bottle-feeding lambs which soon became pets. Although Michelle was valedictorian and president of her senior class, she was not particularly engaged in a peer social life. She was happy to go along with her family to occasional Catholic conferences that included speakers, Mass and adoration.
She was a FOCUS missionary at four college campuses, including the inaugural year at the University of Mary, mentoring college students to draw them deeper into the faith. Mary Ann pointed out that Michelle a mission she also lived. Later she helped plan Thirst Conferences in Bismarck as Director of Faith Formation for the diocese.
In the fall of 2014 that Michelle began experiencing sharp pains in her abdomen. Ovarian cysts was the diagnosis. Nothing serious, Michelle was told, and they might even dissolve on their own. By mid-December Michelle was in agony. After a second ultrasound, out-patient surgery was scheduled for December 29 to remove the cysts. The surgeon opened Michelle and was shocked at the finding. Her abdomen was full of cancer—stage four. “Michelle, there isn’t anything we can do,” she was told by two doctors that she should go home for hospice care.
“How long does she have?” Mary Ann asked, horrified. “Two months,” was the answer.
Thus began Michelle’s year-long journey, fighting for her life while accepting God’s will every step of the way. Her sister Renae, who had a degree in nursing, accompanied her on the journey as her personal nurse.
There were many surgeries and hospital stays until Michelle was sent home when there was nothing more that could be done for her. “Michelle was not one to blame anyone for anything,” Mary Ann said. “Her attitude was, ‘If God wants me to go through this, I will go through this.’”
Towards the end of the journey when Michelle was put on hospice care, a family doctor asked Mary Ann if they had to do it over again, did they think all her medical procedures were worth putting Michelle through so much pain to gain another 10 months? “You have no idea of how many lives she touched that last year,” Mary Ann responded. “Not only was Michelle a great witness of her deep faith, she used that time to offer her suffering for others. There were over 230,000 hits on her CaringBridge site that year, including strangers from across the country. How do you measure the good from that?”
Mary Ann shared that one of her most precious gifts from Michelle is a relic medal from the Shrine of the North American Martyrs in New York. “Michelle said that she believed a time was coming when we, too, should be ready if we would be asked by Our Lord to suffer martyrdom to pass on the faith. She told her that we need to be brave by putting on the armor of faith! This she did to her very last breath. She never talked about death or dying, just about hope of what the future might bring.”
Right up until the end, Michelle still prayed for healing. However, one of the sisters from the Congregation of Teresian Carmelites serving at Spirit of Life in Mandan who had helped out during hospice care, later revealed that Michelle had told her that she would die on Christmas Day. Somehow, in the end, Michelle knew. Family members took turns gathering around her bed the evening of December 25, singing, praying and expressing their love. Michelle took her last breath at 11:23 p.m.Died: December 25, 2015 (age 31 years), North Dakota
And now, Michelle may one day be counted among the canonized saints. “She gave everything,” her father Ken said. “Her whole year of suffering, the pain was non-stop. It was hard watching. But it wasn’t just that year. Her whole life was dedicated to whatever Jesus wanted.” When she was in the hospital, he said he would pray the rosary over the phone with Michelle, Mary Ann and Renae.
He said it was typical for hospital staff to be drawn to Michelle, sometimes sharing personal problems with her. “She would be concerned about their problems, not hers,” Ken said. An example he gave was when someone was upset that her husband had left her. “Michelle told her, ‘Forgive him and pray for him because you are maybe the only one who can help him.’” The woman came back later with joy and shared that she had finally found peace, and was finally able to move on.
According to Ken, Michelle’s attitude was that we should do everything we can while on earth to make it to heaven. “She would say to the other FOCUS missionaries, ‘Give everything you’ve got because it might be the only chance to save that person’s soul; you have to show them the way.’ Whatever she did, she always did her best.”
Her sister Lisa Gray shared that Michelle’s example has shown her how to live an amazing life in ordinary ways. “She lived her life in conformity to Christ. When I saw her taking her last breath, I was so happy for her,” Lisa explained. “I was so proud of her. I had the feeling of her running to Jesus. It was not just the tragedy of the cancer story; people knew that Michelle was marked; it was just part of her journey. I had a heart of knowledge that she was going to heaven on Christmas night.”
Early the next morning, Lisa received confirmation. “As I woke up, I heard her voice, ‘Leese, it’s beautiful.’ Her voice was radiant.”
The path to Sainthood for Michelle Duppong:
On November 1st, 2022 (Solemnity of All Saints), Bishop David Kagan celebrated the Opening Mass for the Cause of Canonization of Michelle Duppong. By a formal act of acceptance and publication of the postulator’s petition (libellus) at this Mass, the diocesan phase of investigation officially began and Michelle Duppong was given the title ‘Servant of God’.
The Servant of God Michelle Duppong Guild:
The Michelle Duppong Guild is a group of individuals tasked with promoting an awareness of the life of Servant of God Michelle Duppong
email: duppongguild@bismarckdiocese.com
Click here for the official website of The Michelle Duppong Guild.
Traveling to the grave of Michelle Duppong:
Saint Clement Cemetery
Morton County, North Dakota, USA